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		<title>By: malinesky</title>
		<link>http://www.beautifulandhappy.com/2007/09/30/letting-go-of-your-kids/#comment-33</link>
		<dc:creator>malinesky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 13:55:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup, thanks for sharing your friend's experience and I know some people would get bit of idea that Oz immigration laws are becoming tougher. I also hope that your friend's handling everything positively coz when God closes a door, He opens some windows. Just like us, we'll try oz but we also have plans B &#038; C, just in case.  We have to plan well for the kids and in every step, I know God will always be there.
Enjoy the rest of your stay in Melbourne and I hope you like my other blogs. Cheers! G'day, mate!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Yup, thanks for sharing your friend&#8217;s experience and I know some people would get bit of idea that Oz immigration laws are becoming tougher. I also hope that your friend&#8217;s handling everything positively coz when God closes a door, He opens some windows. Just like us, we&#8217;ll try oz but we also have plans B &#038; C, just in case.  We have to plan well for the kids and in every step, I know God will always be there.<br />
Enjoy the rest of your stay in Melbourne and I hope you like my other blogs. Cheers! G&#8217;day, mate!</p>
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		<title>By: danette</title>
		<link>http://www.beautifulandhappy.com/2007/09/30/letting-go-of-your-kids/#comment-32</link>
		<dc:creator>danette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 11:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>not really,just got hooked with my friend's problem.but if you think you are on the right track then go for it.lots of luck.God Bless you too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>not really,just got hooked with my friend&#8217;s problem.but if you think you are on the right track then go for it.lots of luck.God Bless you too!</p>
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		<title>By: malinesky</title>
		<link>http://www.beautifulandhappy.com/2007/09/30/letting-go-of-your-kids/#comment-31</link>
		<dc:creator>malinesky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 09:32:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow, with your knowledge of immigration issues, I am now starting to think if you're really just a tourist downunder or a migration agent! :-D!
can't still figure out though why she got denied because based on the info in IMMI website, the basic purpose of the graduate skilled visa is for the student to gain the enough work experience before applying for residency.  So obviously, you don't need the job experience when you apply for that visa because you just finished your course!  Unless, there could be some sabotage somewhere from heartless souls who would do anything to ruin a person's wish to have a better life - oops, sorry, that just crossed my mind coz a close friend experienced that before.  But that happens you know, and the sad part sometimes is when fellow pinoys do that to other pinoys rather than helping out.
Oh, this immigration issues are just nickel-and-dime compared to God's greater plans for your friend and my friend, as well,and for sure to all of us, too! So i think we should give it a rest, shouldn't we?
God bless!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>wow, with your knowledge of immigration issues, I am now starting to think if you&#8217;re really just a tourist downunder or a migration agent! :-D!<br />
can&#8217;t still figure out though why she got denied because based on the info in IMMI website, the basic purpose of the graduate skilled visa is for the student to gain the enough work experience before applying for residency.  So obviously, you don&#8217;t need the job experience when you apply for that visa because you just finished your course!  Unless, there could be some sabotage somewhere from heartless souls who would do anything to ruin a person&#8217;s wish to have a better life - oops, sorry, that just crossed my mind coz a close friend experienced that before.  But that happens you know, and the sad part sometimes is when fellow pinoys do that to other pinoys rather than helping out.<br />
Oh, this immigration issues are just nickel-and-dime compared to God&#8217;s greater plans for your friend and my friend, as well,and for sure to all of us, too! So i think we should give it a rest, shouldn&#8217;t we?<br />
God bless!</p>
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		<title>By: danette</title>
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		<dc:creator>danette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 07:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the problem she experienced was thru the assessing body she needs to go thru which is VETASSES. She did apply for the graduate skilled temporary visa but got denied by the assessing body because she couldn't meet the requirements with them, specifically the work experience,thats why immigration couldnt grant her the visa.if only she realized that she should have worked in-line with her profession while she was studying, it might have made a big difference.one piece of advice too, dont go beyond the allotted working hours, they do check now! well,goodluck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>the problem she experienced was thru the assessing body she needs to go thru which is VETASSES. She did apply for the graduate skilled temporary visa but got denied by the assessing body because she couldn&#8217;t meet the requirements with them, specifically the work experience,thats why immigration couldnt grant her the visa.if only she realized that she should have worked in-line with her profession while she was studying, it might have made a big difference.one piece of advice too, dont go beyond the allotted working hours, they do check now! well,goodluck!</p>
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		<title>By: malinesky</title>
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		<dc:creator>malinesky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2007 10:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi, again! yup, immigration can be so tough sometimes.  When my husband was still applying for his student visa, they didn't honor the bank account we presented from here. They said they couldn't tell if the money is really ours.  I thought the graduate skills visa is good for 18 months?  It's in the immi.gov.au site. About our plans, we're still crossing our fingers with lots of prayers, of course! 
Enjoy your stay in Oz, and enjoy the shopping in Bridgeroad,hehe.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>hi, again! yup, immigration can be so tough sometimes.  When my husband was still applying for his student visa, they didn&#8217;t honor the bank account we presented from here. They said they couldn&#8217;t tell if the money is really ours.  I thought the graduate skills visa is good for 18 months?  It&#8217;s in the immi.gov.au site. About our plans, we&#8217;re still crossing our fingers with lots of prayers, of course!<br />
Enjoy your stay in Oz, and enjoy the shopping in Bridgeroad,hehe.</p>
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		<title>By: danette</title>
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		<dc:creator>danette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2007 10:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi! yes, having a vacation here at armadale, will go back to phils in a few weeks.it was a pity for this friend of mine 'coz she wasnt given a chance coz she wasnt able to provide enough financial capabilities to extend her stay to gain her skill to apply for PR. the immigration learned too, because they traced her history that the money she provided when she was doing her course wasnt hers after all..it was just borrowed and put onto their bank account, making it look like it was their own.too risky.didnt know that immigration could trace such a thing. and what you're saying about the graduate skilled visa, yes, thats exactly the visa she did apply.but the bad thing about it is that its only good for 6 months and cant be extended (that is its restriction).and 6 months didnt allow her to fully meet the criteria of having the prescribed number of hours of experience and being able to apply for all the requirements necessary to gain her PR...so bad luck for her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>hi! yes, having a vacation here at armadale, will go back to phils in a few weeks.it was a pity for this friend of mine &#8216;coz she wasnt given a chance coz she wasnt able to provide enough financial capabilities to extend her stay to gain her skill to apply for PR. the immigration learned too, because they traced her history that the money she provided when she was doing her course wasnt hers after all..it was just borrowed and put onto their bank account, making it look like it was their own.too risky.didnt know that immigration could trace such a thing. and what you&#8217;re saying about the graduate skilled visa, yes, thats exactly the visa she did apply.but the bad thing about it is that its only good for 6 months and cant be extended (that is its restriction).and 6 months didnt allow her to fully meet the criteria of having the prescribed number of hours of experience and being able to apply for all the requirements necessary to gain her PR&#8230;so bad luck for her.</p>
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		<title>By: malinesky</title>
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		<dc:creator>malinesky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 12:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi again, danette! Funny but based on your IP address, you're coming from Melbourne, Australia, too.  Where in Melbourne do you live? We used to live in Brunswick.
Hope you enjoy reading my blogs!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>hi again, danette! Funny but based on your IP address, you&#8217;re coming from Melbourne, Australia, too.  Where in Melbourne do you live? We used to live in Brunswick.<br />
Hope you enjoy reading my blogs!</p>
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		<title>By: malinesky</title>
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		<dc:creator>malinesky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 08:55:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi! thanks for visiting the site.  Yes, immigration laws in Australia change almost every year, but Oz is open for migration so they obviously know that most students go there to study then apply for residency later. I think they know that Australia will benefit more if most migrants would have Australian education first.  Plus, they lose nothing coz as a matter of fact, international students pay double in tuition fees.  So I don't think they are against students who apply for residency.  You don't really have to finish a professional course, but it's better if your chosen field is included in their Skilled Occupations List (SOL).  I am sorry about what happened to your friend. Just got puzzled why she's deported. 'Coz if she didnt get the residency, she just needed to go home before her visa expired so there's no need for  deportation, unless she stayed in Oz illegally after that.  Moreso, there's a new visa available to graduating students so they can comply with the required work experience, the graduate skills visa.  Why your friend didn't avail of that?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>hi! thanks for visiting the site.  Yes, immigration laws in Australia change almost every year, but Oz is open for migration so they obviously know that most students go there to study then apply for residency later. I think they know that Australia will benefit more if most migrants would have Australian education first.  Plus, they lose nothing coz as a matter of fact, international students pay double in tuition fees.  So I don&#8217;t think they are against students who apply for residency.  You don&#8217;t really have to finish a professional course, but it&#8217;s better if your chosen field is included in their Skilled Occupations List (SOL).  I am sorry about what happened to your friend. Just got puzzled why she&#8217;s deported. &#8216;Coz if she didnt get the residency, she just needed to go home before her visa expired so there&#8217;s no need for  deportation, unless she stayed in Oz illegally after that.  Moreso, there&#8217;s a new visa available to graduating students so they can comply with the required work experience, the graduate skills visa.  Why your friend didn&#8217;t avail of that?</p>
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		<title>By: danette</title>
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		<dc:creator>danette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 06:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>your husband's still in australia? guess it must be hard for you and the kids. I've heard that Australia is quite strict with their rules now. You must be enrolled in a professional course to be able to stay and now they changed it again. I've got a friend who just was deported back because she needs to have work experience met before applying to stay over plus the financial requirements that comes with it, to think that she has already studied for at least 2 years (which supposed to be waved already). Immigration found out now that many overseas students just apply in order to work and stay so they have changed it. hope your husband's profession's in demand to make it all worth it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>your husband&#8217;s still in australia? guess it must be hard for you and the kids. I&#8217;ve heard that Australia is quite strict with their rules now. You must be enrolled in a professional course to be able to stay and now they changed it again. I&#8217;ve got a friend who just was deported back because she needs to have work experience met before applying to stay over plus the financial requirements that comes with it, to think that she has already studied for at least 2 years (which supposed to be waved already). Immigration found out now that many overseas students just apply in order to work and stay so they have changed it. hope your husband&#8217;s profession&#8217;s in demand to make it all worth it.</p>
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		<title>By: malinesky</title>
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		<dc:creator>malinesky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 09:58:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup, but not from Boss Carl.hehe. Actually when we were thinking of a name, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy was being shown in Oz.  Albert was so keen on naming the baby Carson! I opposed of course! So we just agreed on Carl Andrei! Andrei after my tatay, Andres.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Yup, but not from Boss Carl.hehe. Actually when we were thinking of a name, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy was being shown in Oz.  Albert was so keen on naming the baby Carson! I opposed of course! So we just agreed on Carl Andrei! Andrei after my tatay, Andres.</p>
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